An old saying goes, "once beaten, twice shy." Another says, "forgive and forget."
These "wise words" pretty much sum up the conundrum facing a man with his marriage.
Femi (not his real name) seems to still be in love with his wife but is torn between his heard and his heart.
After agreeing to separate from her with the consent of both families, he thinks his wife - who cheated on him twice - is orchestrating a route back under the guise of homelessness.
"Now that she is begging me, I am feeling pity for her, but I am thinking if I allow her in, it will not be well with me," he explained to Joyce Onyemuwa on Confessions Thursday on the Sunny Side.
He continued, "I don't know what advice to take."
Watch the video for his full story.
